I agree and see your point but the highest at risk people still need to be able to go to work and to shop...So it's okay for them to work and shop, but not the healthy? That logic is off to me. You don't quarantine the healthy. You quarantine those at risk and those that are sick. It sucks for them. It shouldn't suck for everyone because it sucks for them.
They're still gonna try and see their families...And that is their right, and their decision. And they should be able to make it, with their families. What I do and where I go shouldn't affect that decision. It should affect the decision of my family and people I visit. I wear a mask everywhere except restaurants when I'm out. We don't go out much (hell, I like being forced to stay at home most of the time), but we do go out and eat occasionally. And I take my kid swimming. If my friends or family don't feel comfortable being around me because of that, I respect their decision.
I think we need to focus on doing the essentials right now like working, food shopping, things like that and eliminate the thought of vacations, sports, and most activities until less of the population are carrying it and passing it back and forth...This is where we disagree. I don't think people should put their lives on hold for a small fraction of the population. I did before I knew what we seem to know now. Granted, what we know might not be ultimate knowledge, but there is enough data to support it isn't lethal or deadly unless you're elderly and/or an at risk person. School, sports, vacations and life as we know it should continue.
If people could just wear a mask for the next month and a half everywhere they go in public and avoid going to bars and restaurants then that means less of us healthy carriers will be walking around unknowingly passing it and the less healthy of us can reemerge because there would be less risk around every corner...I totally agree on the masks. When you can. I hate them, but I do it. Because I understand the reasoning behind it, and I agree with it. BUT, sports should be played like normal without them. And if someone wants to go out to a bar or restaurant, they should be able to. But honestly, I want to punch the "can't take my freedom" folks in regards to wearing a mask. Just shut up and do the right thing. It's not an opinion, it's a fact that wearing one lessens the spread. I'm so sick of entitled Mericans. They make me want to puke. But I'm sick of those that continue to say everyone must stay home. Neither of those is the correct answer. No matter what either wing of whichever media you choose says.
So long as the healthiest among us keep saying things like, "I'm fine! Stop restricting me!" We're gonna keep passing it back and forth and it will never subside until we get a vaccine. It's proven you can get Covid multiple times and the top carriers at the moment are healthy people who rightfully think they're perfectly fine but don't they think about who they will come into contact with that might not be fine. So you've got healthy people just passing it back and forth, then coming into contact with non-healthy folks. I fully believe if we all would just wear masks for a bit and we limited our exposure by avoiding most sports and cramped indoor activities that would help slow the spread. Some small changes now would help avoid big changes down the road, this ain't going anywhere and it's being proven more and more each day that other countries have handled this far better than we have...And this is why the sick and at risk should stay home and limit as much as they can, if they don't want the risks. Asking all of America to stay home and shut down businesses and schools, while waiting for a vaccine is not a small (your words) change. That's an enormous change. It was for the 60-90 days we did (I agreed with that). A small change is the mask and limiting some things. See above about wanting to punch people that don't buy into that.