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I would like some feedback on what type of suspension is appropriate for an athlete who has an alcohol/drug infraction. I know there are several different policies on this topic. Personally, I think it should be a 365 day suspension from all extra-curricular activities. What do you guys/gals think?
 
What kind of infraction? I would want to have a lot of information to make a good educated decision... There is a big difference in a kid that gets caught in a car that smells like weed and a kid that has an 8 ball of coke on him that he is planning to sell at school. Was the police involved? Was it guilt by association? There is no blanket that you can throw over all "drug" infractions.
 
I would like some feedback on what type of suspension is appropriate for an athlete who has an alcohol/drug infraction. I know there are several different policies on this topic. Personally, I think it should be a 365 day suspension from all extra-curricular activities. What do you guys/gals think?
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What kind of infraction? I would want to have a lot of information to make a good educated decision... There is a big difference in a kid that gets caught in a car that smells like weed and a kid that has an 8 ball of coke on him that he is planning to sell at school. Was the police involved? Was it guilt by association? There is no blanket that you can throw over all "drug" infractions.
The Mox agrees. Was he out at the strip club, or stealing a cop car? As a Brown educated lawyer you have to know all the facts. Give The Mox a call if your boy needs some legal assistance.
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I would like some feedback on what type of suspension is appropriate for an athlete who has an alcohol/drug infraction. I know there are several different policies on this topic. Personally, I think it should be a 365 day suspension from all extra-curricular activities. What do you guys/gals think?
Possession of alcohol I would think a 2-3 week suspension from all activities first offense, second offense 365 days

Illegal drug possession 365 days, drug dealing they gone and hopefully in jail

Tobacco use 2-3 week suspension first offense, 365 days second offense
 
What kind of infraction? I would want to have a lot of information to make a good educated decision... There is a big difference in a kid that gets caught in a car that smells like weed and a kid that has an 8 ball of coke on him that he is planning to sell at school. Was the police involved? Was it guilt by association? There is no blanket that you can throw over all "drug" infractions.

I wouldn't want to go on heresay. I mean a verifiable offense, where the kid is in possesion, or under the influence.
 
The Mox agrees. Was he out at the strip club, or stealing a cop car? As a Brown educated lawyer you have to know all the facts. Give The Mox a call if your boy needs some legal assistance.
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While he might have paid for his Brown education in some less than questionable ways, he is a good lawyer. There has been a video going around, that allegedly shows me slashing some tires. The Mox has squashed those allegations!
 
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Easy there Mox! Im just giving you some free advertising in the form of a customer review!
The Mox was just letting people know that Bosko would never slash the tires of a coach. Bosko is not only the Booster Club president, but a model citizen for the town of Ampipe and a roll model that all student-athletes should look up to.
 
I would say it would depend on the substance. If it is a vape that the parents bought them and it was on school property should be a game or two the first time and more if it continues. If it is illegal drugs there should be no tolerance. First offence make it a year suspension from all activities.
 
Usually these things depend on how much influence parents have in your community. Proceed accordingly.

Dad works at bank, prestigious law firm, member of Rotary or deacon at church, etc. = Whole thing swept under the rug, athlete starts every game.

One or more parents work while standing on feet and not sitting behind a desk = banned for life.
 
I say suspend him or her for a game, rebrand them as a underclassman and let them play said game (of course make sure all noticeable tattoos are covered)... then let the chips fall as they may.
 
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I believe a typical policy is, if convicted, the student athlete is out until they serve whatever penalty they have legally. So usually however long it takes for them to complete their community service. If there isn't any legal consequences then I'm sure each school has their own consequences in their handbook
 
I think every instance should be dealt with on a case by case basis.....I hate zero tolerance b.s., that's the lazy way out. remember the chiefs player and k-state football player who got kicked out of the shawnee mission school district because he was seen at a party where beer was present or something dumb like that? punishment has to fit the crime
 
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No athletic department can enable underage drinking and it’s always best to keep the rules simple and consistent.

* That being said, is there a difference between a player...
1. who has a glass of wine with a steak meal his father made for the mother’s birthday? (Actually had to address that once. Never eat dinner on your outdoor patio, I guess)
2. A player who gets throwing up sick from drinking at a party?

Hence the challenge: How to keep policies simple without having blanket punishments for a variety of situations.
Nothing like the old double standard!
 
It's "more" ok for the student-athlete to violate state law, MSHSAA policy, and district policy if the Cleavers get together on the patio for some steaks and wine, but if Johnny and Pony Boy violate the same laws and policies sitting on a curb sucking down a 40, it's "less" ok.

I think it has to do more with who are your parents....If your dad is on the school board and you are sitting on the curb sucking down a 40 it is okay. If your parents work at a chicken or Window factory and you are sitting on the back porch drinking some wine with mom and dad you all are going to jail.

But here is the real problem, most of the time these kids are under age so the school/s say they cannot discuss the punishment with anybody else, so nobody never really sees how things are truly handled behind closed doors and how unfairly the punishments are dished out depending on the kids and parents.
 
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My god...I used to have cases a beer for my Raiders after each game. Just win baby!
Yea I remember when my older brother was playing at Webb back in the early 60’s after winning conference at Cassville I think,,every player getting back on the bus got a big cigar from coach to celebrate a job well done. Not sure that it wasn’t a good thing
 
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Yea I remember when my older brother was playing at Webb back in the early 60’s after winning conference at Cassville I think,,every player getting back on the bus got a big cigar from coach to celebrate a job well done. Not sure that it wasn’t a good thing
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I would like some feedback on what type of suspension is appropriate for an athlete who has an alcohol/drug infraction. I know there are several different policies on this topic. Personally, I think it should be a 365 day suspension from all extra-curricular activities. What do you guys/gals think?[/QUOT


My kids went to private school & policy was discretionary. Some kids came over after a game & one got sick from drinking. I called his parents who took it to their coach( the kids were only there 30 minutes so most likely drinking on bus ride back from game). My son and two other kids admitted to it, star running back and a couple others said they were there but not drinking. Kids who admitted had to sit one game others no issue.

My opinion putting something over a week as mandatory could be bad because there are so many things that can happen. Someone seen with a beer versus someone who gets arrested for a DWI or caught drinking at a school event is not the same. Most students drink in high school but there does need to be consequences if they are caught. But missing a year of sports for one beer could have lifelong effect on a kid.
 
Thank you.
I never took the stance that either was okay by any means.
My point was if you put a policy into writing thats a blanket punishment, you’re bound to it.
That led to my next post: If catholic players are at a mass, and sip wine for communion are they, too, subject to “violating state law and MSHSAA policy”?
Does anyone really want to enforce that one?
It seems like a ridiculous question, but my point is to consider everything before putting policy in place.

Very wise advice for a young coach "writing" a policy.

Also to other posts, the last I knew, consumption of alcohol on parents property with their permission and under their supervision is not a violation of the liquor laws of possession and consumption. On the wine at mass issue, wouldn't trying to regulate that run into the establishment clause? Its not like you are talking about them hanging around the keg at a Catholic wedding.;)
 
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That was kind of my point. Original post was asking for what we thought an appropriate punishment would be.
I wanted to share some experiences that had led to some discussion.
For the record, the wine story came from a family that were immigrants from Corsica, I believe. Nosy neighbor was watching this and, as her kid had gotten punished for being falling down drunk in public the season before, wanted to make sure everyone else was getting the “same punishment”.
Technically, she was right. The policy, as written, did not differentiate between any situation. The father was called in. He was a great guy and very remorseful, but in his broken English was trying to say how he didn’t understand any logic in it.
Policy was followed and punishment was carried out. I sure didn’t feel good about it, though.
Although unhealthy choices must always be discouraged, that one felt a little invasive and out of bounds.

We're on the same page.
 
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I would like some feedback on what type of suspension is appropriate for an athlete who has an alcohol/drug infraction. I know there are several different policies on this topic. Personally, I think it should be a 365 day suspension from all extra-curricular activities. What do you guys/gals think?

I use to think hey 365 them. But after being a foster parent and seeing the back ground that some kids come from I believe some kids need sports and the discipline and relief from what they come from that participating in a sport brings more than the other. Some kids the only adult figure and guidance they get is by being on a team and from those coaches. So to kick them off for 365 days at times might reinforce what they are hearing and seeing at home that they are worthless. They may go ahead and drop out of school, they may go further into a life of drugs and crime. I don't want to say all kids can be saved, but I think you need to try and a blanket policy for all is not always the best way to handle things.

I have always heard that if they are participating in something on Friday nights is better than out causing trouble and I believe that. Sure some kids know better and at some point you have to just go ahead and say man we have given you the tools to change and this is not working. But I think you need to help kids and just kicking them to the curb for a mistake is not always the best way for all kids.
 
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