Agree totally. Baseball has become totally insane and elitist. I hear some of my friends talk about it and it just sounds totally bonkers - and their end game isn't even a college gig, it's just to play on the HS team. I have a friend who will have spent the equivalent of a college education on his kids youth baseball by the time they graduate.
Volleyball is kind of the same way although it's not nearly as expensive, doesn't require much gear, and it's not as time consuming. But some coaches and trainers in that sport are pushing the same do this and only this all year. And you have basically zero chance of making the team in many high schools if you don't do private lessons and do club in the off season.