While people on this site routinely attemp to disparage Christians and the Bible by pointing out "rules" or requirements they don't agree with or understand, The Bible and being a follower of Christ are pretty simple.
God made man in a perfect relationship. Man sinned and separated themselves from God in a way that man could not restore. The punishment for that sin is ETERNAL separation from God and the peace that exists in that perfect relationship. God showed mercy on man (through no obligation) and provided a way for man to be cleared of that guilt brought by sin. God himself would pay the price (death) of that sin. Anyone who would accept that payment would be cleared of their wrongs. In order to accept that payment that could be paid no other way, man is expected and justly required to lay down his desires in exchange for persuing Gods desires for mans life (as it was before sin). All the rest of the debates arise from man desiring to find ways around this requirement. Everyone wants that restored relationship with God but, everyone wants what they want too. All sin is born of a desire to not have to be what God wants. The Bible is clear that all men fail but God sees the sincere desire of the heart.
While I expect to be attempting to correct many more erroneous statements, please know the above principles are what matter.
God made man in a perfect relationship. Man sinned and separated themselves from God in a way that man could not restore. The punishment for that sin is ETERNAL separation from God and the peace that exists in that perfect relationship. God showed mercy on man (through no obligation) and provided a way for man to be cleared of that guilt brought by sin. God himself would pay the price (death) of that sin. Anyone who would accept that payment would be cleared of their wrongs. In order to accept that payment that could be paid no other way, man is expected and justly required to lay down his desires in exchange for persuing Gods desires for mans life (as it was before sin). All the rest of the debates arise from man desiring to find ways around this requirement. Everyone wants that restored relationship with God but, everyone wants what they want too. All sin is born of a desire to not have to be what God wants. The Bible is clear that all men fail but God sees the sincere desire of the heart.
While I expect to be attempting to correct many more erroneous statements, please know the above principles are what matter.