Some of this has merit, some I'm not so sure. I agree with the part about the coach that coached everything. There were a lot of those. Now, it's just at the smallest level possible for football to exist that you might see the same guy coaching hoops (or wrastln', I suppose) and then track or baseball. Those coaches typically weren't pulling the strings of a kid to keep him in the weight room over the winter. They wanted them to help on the basketball court. So I get that point.Agree on the parents, etc. But the commitment asked of athletes today is way, way, way more than it was a couple of decades ago or more. Football used to start in August. Now it starts after Christmas break. And every sport is the same way. I think it's ironic when people reference the off-season in a sport. As in, "he didn't come to anything in the off-season," or "When does 'off-season' start?" There is no off season.
Your grandpa's coach may have toughened them up, but he didn't ask them to put in the commitment that we ask of kids today. When the season was over, your grandpa's coach went and coached basketball. When that was over, he went and coached track. And when that was over, he mowed or painted houses. And in August, started football again. This "old days" stuff wears me out, because it's just not altogether true. I'm not saying the current situation is better or worse- they do become better football players. But it's not at all the same as the old days.
The commitment thing, I've just never understood. I coached basketball for 18 yrs. I wanted our kids at everything they could possibly attend. BUT, if they had to work or had other school commitments (including other sports obviously), we never viewed that as a bad thing or a lack of commitment. I know different coaches are different, but fact is, if you're good enough, no coach worth his weight won't keep you and play you. Doesn't matter how many off season workouts you've been to or missed. Where I always questioned an athlete is when they didn't make an effort to manage their time. Heck, with all of the contact days restrictions and such, you really don't have to be all that committed to show up. I also struggled with the non school stuff. AAU basketball, whatever all the non school baseball stuff is called, and all of the "select" football workouts and teams. Those people prey on the parents that have to see their kid "succeed" even if it means writing a check to guarantee some playing time. And they lessen the value of games played at the school level.
I know, I know...get off my lawn.