Read the board often, comment rarely. MG, I agree on most things with you. This ain't one.
I'm in the middle 1/3 of my education career. Your comment is why teachers and coaches are leaving in droves. There are teachers and coaches fighting the good fight daily. They are tired, it seems unwinnable. And I think it is partly unwinnable. A 30 minute discussion at the dinner table erases hours of ethics that teachers and coaches are trying to instill into kids. Ethics that we would ALL agree are positive. I agree 100% that it should be the parents job, but it isn't happening. I know there are bad apples in the education world, as there are in your comparison to the Vatican. But both institutions are trying to do more good than harm, you just rarely hear about that part.
CRT is a different story entirely. But teachers and coaches trying to get kids to be respectful, on time, and hard working isn't too much to ask. And if it was happening at home, we wouldn't have to ask at all.