No there is no difference between you and I, I also believe that people through hard would can and should support themselves.
When we decided to have kids I worked two jobs, not a full time job and then a part time job, but 40 plus and then got off that job and worked another 40 every week. I had my kid kid then had my second kid I don't take handouts, I work very hard and it has paid off nicely for my family my kids and my career.
I grew up in the 80's were Reaganomics were big and I believed in it and in many ways still believe in trickle down theory. However thru my journey I have watched many of those corporates crap on 99% of the work force because they are run by 1% who get theirs and don't care about those who work for them. I watched a company I worked for fire 500 people because we shipped those jobs to Mexico just so we could save .01 per wiggett during the manufacturing process.
You said it best... in a perfect world government shouldn't need to be involved in Private business, but the reality of the situation if left on thier own companies CEO's would run a company into the ground if they if they could cut themselves a $50 million dollar check. That is why we have so much government involvement is because people are greedy and left on thier own many.... not all.... will do anything to make more money at the demise of others even their workers and customers...remember the ford pinto.
What I propose is not forced, it is like a tax break a company doesn't have to do it they just won't get a tax break that is all.
Anyways we probable won't agree and that is okay, I have included a link below to one theory on it, what I wrote down sort of dumbed it down.
https://www.brookings.edu/opinions/yes-corporate-tax-cuts-can-raise-wages-heres-how/
I will add this I could retire today, but that is not how our government is set up they want to make sure I have to work so that I still have to pay taxes, so I cannot touch a lot of my money that I worked so hard to save up until I reach that 59 year old threshold which I think sucks.